1. Remember that God loved you when you were yet unlovable. By loving the unlovable, you make them loveable. Through love, after breaking our curse, God transformed us. I have loved you with an everlasting lov; i have drawn you with unfailing kindness. Jeremiah 31:3
2. Recognise the need for help. You have to deliberately learn to pay attention to the needs of other people. If you respond to people with love instead of hate, they get empowered to change for better into their true nature of God.
3. Serve them. Some people will always remain in the realm of the unlovable until he/she recieves compasion. “With the God kind of love, you go beyond tolerating people unto caring, helping and serving them. Service takes you into a deeper level of love. Serve one another humbly in love” – Galatians 5:13
4. Re-energies for God and others. Do not allow your love to wave. learn to continue to love people the way you loved them first. And endeavor to grow in love.