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How to Overcome Masturbation Pornography and live in Purity

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This is a practice often found among young folks and research as even proven that is among the old ones too, however it as been there in them since they were young.

Youths of age 12 t0 25 are the ones that are found in this practice the most!

It is not moral, they are actually found doing it due to different motives; actually majority engage in it because they are not yet married, and perhaps, not ready to marry but there is a sexual hunger that is building up in them, and in bid of trying to feed their hunger, not with real sex, they ought in for pornography and masturbation, now this too is not good.

Because it has side effect which majority are not aware of, and besides as a true Christian (Sons and DAUGHTERS OF GOD) you must glorify God with your body, the Spirit of God that we receive actually lives in our body.

It lives within us, so we must ensure that we are not defile.

Some ladies who are also afraid of failing into temptation of real sex and thereby getting Unwanted pregnancy, opt in for Masturbation and watching pornography. Even though our society today, feels there is nothing bad about it, the truth is, scripturally it is not Good.

We must ensure the word of God remains our true standard of living.

The fact that majority are doing it, does not make it right.

We are called Saints of God and therefore, we are expected to remain sanctify!

This is very important, and one thing about sexual perversion is that, as you engage to feed that sexual urge, so also it will be developing inside of you and that is how Addiction use to begin, Addiction however, is another class on it own, those that are addicted can not do without it, that is where the worse begins, and this things alwyas bring demonic attraction, when the spirit of a man comes to a state of been totally dead, that even after doing anything bad, he does not feel guilty anymore, then it is now called “Addiction“.

You really need to fight against it, and that is what i will be treating next now, because it ca make you vulnerable to the enemy’s attack, it can also take hold of your mind, that you will come to a state whereby you don’t see anything wrong in it again.

This is not a good experience at all.

Some other folks also got into bad friends and peer influence overwhelm them into Pornography, sexual perverse words, gist and discussion, which eventually lead into fornication, some people got into it while they are in secondary school by watching pornography for the first time and it sinks into their brain and getting rid becomes a war.

So How Can I overcome Masturbation Addiction?

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1 Give Yourself to Praying : Yes! Prayers still works, i have been into masturbation before so l know what i am saying, if you really give yourself to serious throne room prayers, you can be sure indeed that you are coming out victorious! It works, prayer helps to set your soul on fire for God and when you are on fire, you are in charge!

Giving yourself to Fasting and Prayer helps to subdue the flesh and enlarge the spirit, the desire is from the flesh, so you must subdue the flesh by fasting and praying, this is the only way to win. The other day, Jesus told the Disciples, he said, rise up and pray that ye, mayest not fall into temptation, – Luke 22:46 . So JESUS proved to us in that verse of the bible that prayers can help men to over temptation.

2 Make up your Mind : This is very important, you need to come to that state of mind, where you really decide to put your body under, the real behind masturbation and pornography is that, it as a way of making both men and women crave for sex, more than normal, and that can cause a ot of havoc, can lead to both fornication and adultery, so Sex is meant to make “LOVE” happen, not “LUST”.

This is the reason why you must make up your mind, and besides, do you know Apostle Paul also had to made up his mind? The Bible says in 1 Corinthians 9 : 27   –  But I keep under my body, and bring it into subjection: lest that by any means, when I have preached to others, I myself should be a castaway.

3 Beware of the Company you keep : This is another thing to watch out for! Beware of the company you keep, it goes a long way to influence and determine the experience you have, there are certain people that are not even moved with a sense of control, anyhow they feel, they are ready to talk about it, share about it, and go extra mile to get whatsoever they want., you need to keep away from such people before they influence you in a negative way.

It really doesn’t matter who you are, your companies tells a lot about you, so always keep the right company.

4 Beware of what You watch, think and say : This is another very important and vital key to take note of, beware of what you watch, you can not be fighting against pornography and you are stuffing yourself with blue films, nude and seductive movies, that way, you will not be able to acheive purity in a grand style, the order of God’s glorification agenda for his people, has Purity in its make-up.

God doesn’t want to bless you and the next thing you do is to add to the number of your wife, even in the midst of blessings and abundance, you must be orderly and you must be discipline, this is how to prove that you are a son of God.

Don’t join in seductive conversation, chats or discuss that can pollute your mind and make you begin to think in defiled and unpure way, you must keep yourself pure continually!

5 Ask for the Baptism of the Holy Spirit : The Holy Spirit is the 3rd entity in the God-head and you must understand that the Holyspirit is the custodian of Righteousness and Holiness, Godliness can not be acheieved outside the Holyspirit.

So most believer after salvation still find it easy to live life anyhow and to discuss with sinners and unbelievers out there without any feeling of discomfort, simply because they are not yet filled with the Holyspirit, you must begin to pant and ask for the fresh baptism of the Holyspirit.

When it comes, holiness and righteousness, will be your normal state of existence, you will not be trying to please God, rather pleasing God will ultimately become your normal state of existence, so you must recognize the Ministry of the Holy spirit to help you stay purified which will end up making you glorified!

6  Go and get Married : To be sincere with ourselves, it  is limited the extend to which you can fight sexual urges, because you are not a 100% spirit being, you also a human, so you will always have urges and desire to have sex with the opposite sex, this is normal, it is the best way to test your potency.

So if a Child of God who as attain a marriageable age is having challenges in this line, the best thing is to go and marry! After marriage, you and your partner can always know how to best satisfy each other’s sexual desire, this is how to go about it, you can not fight sexual urge, it is part of what happens to mature people.

Most people who ignores marriage end up falling into sexual temptation, so you must be wise, instead of playing around with yourself, go and get married, it is legal to have sex with your wife, nobody will crucify you for that, so the best thing for matured youths and singles to avoid sexual temptation is to go and marry.

However, it is also very important that you understand that, the fact that you are getting married together does not approve having sex, you must keep sex till marriage and stay in purify, this is very important.

The Bible establish that reality in  – Hebrews 13:4 (ESV), which says, “Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.” They say true love waits. The Bible says if you truly love God, you will wait. .

I had to address the marriage issue, because too many times whenn people found themselves masturbating and watching pron, they think its a demon, it is not always demon, it can also be your sexual urge that is taking over you gradually, so by wisdom you win!

More often than not, Temptation comes over and over again, because glorification is so close, so be sensitive!

God will make you great and give you a successful marriage with a loving, caring and God fearing partner, just work in the ligt of the word of God we have shared and it shall be well with u in Jesus name! AMEN!!!!

 

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