“7 THINGS EVERY WOMAN MUST LEARN IN LIFE SO AS TO BE EFFECTIVE AND OUTSTANDING”
(1) –LEARN TO BE DOMESTICATED:
Am sure it doesn’t shock you to know that there are a lot of women out
there who hate being accustomed to household life or housework. They
just despise the idea of washing dishes, handling a broom, or cooking.
And they carry the mentality that a house maid will simply fill in for
them in marriage. What an error! Please leave such a terrible
mentality behind, of what use is your femininity if you do not make
domestic chores a habit? Isn’t that the sweetest quality of being a
woman? Please learn to be domestic, learn to cook different
delicacies, don’t just be good at it, practice more to become BETTER,
it is your IDENTITY!
(2) -LEARN A SKILL:
Sweetheart, the world has gone past the times when a woman’s duty is
to sit down at home and entertain visitors for her husband. Men now
realize the need for a “help meet”. Age is not a barrier, learn a
skill outside your degree, it could be baking, tailoring,
beads-making, and event planning, learn anything to keep busy and
provide income, no matter how little.
(3) -READ BOOKS:
We have developed a poor reading habit over the years, and even when
some try to read a book it has to be “Catalina and Sabastian”, any
book short of romance is a NO. Please renew your reading habit, get
yourself a small library, read inspirational and motivational
materials that can add quality value to your life and increase your
(4) -KEEP WISE COMPANY:
Please cut the social fat. Spend time with people who see value in
you, and people you can learn from. Unfriend every gossip, there’s no
time for all of that idle sitting and discussing people. Keep a core
group close and drop the rest.
(5) –AVOID HEAVY MAKEUP:
Your face is not a coloring book, most times you miss good men because
you apply foundation from your hair to your neck, and they cannot
recognize you. Please learn to live without coloring your face. Be
natural, let your true beauty shine forth!
(6) –KNOW THYSELF:
Stop not knowing when your period is coming. That is what the calendar
on your phone is meant for, having a poor memory is no excuse, put a
regular cycle alert on your phone that will beep and remind you,
something like “hey! I am bleeding”.
(7) –USE YOUR KNEES:
I was having a chat with a friend of mine some time ago when she said
she usually wakes up at 2am every day, thinking she wakes up at that
time to pray I was so excited to hear her say that, until she told me
she gets up to watch the late night movies on TV.
God’s heart better than a praying woman, don’t get lazy about prayers,
make a decision to use your knees every day!
And always remember!
If others can do it, you too can do it!
So make that decision today!
I hope you have been blessed!